tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post100410805305499504..comments2023-06-28T11:26:55.194-04:00Comments on Dancing through NC: Don't Wait to Say the Good StuffKT My Ladyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-62010003518460992092010-07-29T07:13:42.428-04:002010-07-29T07:13:42.428-04:00JoJo, hope the studying is going well. Many people...JoJo, hope the studying is going well. Many people reacted the way that you did to it. It seemed it was either "ew" or "aw." Ha ha.KT My Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-72889436528594358812010-07-29T00:25:40.628-04:002010-07-29T00:25:40.628-04:00I see where you're coming from, but I actually...I see where you're coming from, but I actually don't mind the open letter. Some people are more open with others and that's just how they deal. <br /><br />Take us bloggers for example. We are constantly sharing our thoughts and feelings with complete strangers. Sometimes these feelings may be hopes, dreams, regrets and revelations. <br /><br />Obviously there is a time a place for everything and some things should certainly remain private, but I don't blame him completely for wanting to express his feelings outloud. It's cheaper than a therapist and he's probably just looking for validation.<br /><br />It's a nice idea to try and live in the present, but sometimes the choices you make in the present will forever effect you in the future. <br /><br />They say sometimes you don't realize how much you loved something until it's already gone. <br /><br />That might not apply for everyone, but I can see how it applies for some. It's an emotional time when you suddenly realize you lost someone you loved forever, but he will move on eventually. Time heals all. His present is his emotions, so in a sense he is living in the present and he has to live through it in order to move on. <br /><br />Good study break! This stimulated me to think!JoJohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05776771765597948110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-20984597295629155382010-07-28T18:19:43.211-04:002010-07-28T18:19:43.211-04:00I agree that the letter says more about him. If he...I agree that the letter says more about him. If he really felt that way, he should have let her know in some other form. Letting her know before the big day would have been a good idea too.<br /><br />-Delilah<br /><br />Ps. I also believe that ben are not "naturally" scared of commitment. That idea is something that needs to change on a societal level.dating divahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05634826148056884866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-47557262551394115782010-07-28T14:23:33.138-04:002010-07-28T14:23:33.138-04:00Hi doll. Well, I agree that I did push marriage fo...Hi doll. Well, I agree that I did push marriage for a long time, and I've learned from that. It's difficult to readjust expectations when marriage had been something we mutually agreed on for quite some time. But, I am trying to learn to live in the present moment. It's a struggle--and not as simple as "giving it a rest." It's a lot of work for me! But I am trying to cool it a bit and see how things unfold.<br /><br />Also, I disagree that men are "naturally" scared of commitment. I think they're socialized to see marriage as constrictive, when actually studies show men are the the ones who benefit the most from marriage--longer lifespan, better health, more happiness, etc. Ironic, huh? <br /><br />Thanks for commenting, and I hope you'll do it more!KT My Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-18332550569174105712010-07-28T13:28:33.223-04:002010-07-28T13:28:33.223-04:00funny howi wrote an open letter to my ex on my blo...funny howi wrote an open letter to my ex on my blog this morning...off to check it.<br /><br />P.S iv been reading your blog for a while now, not sure iv dropped a comment, but i think you are pushing marriage too much, guys are naturally scared of commitment, so give it a rest and just let things flow naturallydoll (retired blogger)https://www.blogger.com/profile/04617294319074603189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-502517737222640322010-07-28T13:18:10.545-04:002010-07-28T13:18:10.545-04:00Um... yeah, that's really inappropriate. I ex...Um... yeah, that's really inappropriate. I experience regret sometimes but you either need to fix it in a private way or learn to live with it.Krysten @ Why Girls Are Weirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07290616156300143483noreply@blogger.com