tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post1432634106986361391..comments2023-06-28T11:26:55.194-04:00Comments on Dancing through NC: Did I even cry yesterday?KT My Ladyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-28611523692386305752010-03-30T21:58:32.347-04:002010-03-30T21:58:32.347-04:00Trojan commercial--aww! That is sad and funny at t...Trojan commercial--aww! That is sad and funny at the same time. Our emotions are unpredictable, aren't they? So far (and it's almost the end of the day) I have NOT CRIED! Wow, nearly a whole day. Let's see if I can make it. It's good to know I'm in good company with the crying though. <br /><br />I find it hardest to watch couples interact in person--especially when they do something that reminds me of my relationship with SCL. The other day in our building a guy was unlocking the apartment door, his girlfriend gave him a little smack on the butt, and I almost lost it because it was SO me and SCL. Damn people with their couple cuteness. I'm going to try to remember this next time I'm in a relationship!KT My Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-72705879761271065302010-03-30T18:36:55.524-04:002010-03-30T18:36:55.524-04:00Ha so funny reading this post. I can particularly ...Ha so funny reading this post. I can particularly remember 2 times I cried over silly things in the same situation. Once was when me and my ex got into a fight and i was watching tv and a Trojan commercial came on and a guy and a girl were touching hands seperated by a fence and some romantic song was on and i started crying thinking how beautiful it is that they are in love. Two...was right after me and my bf broke up I was watching something about Mary and started crying during the scene when his zipper gets stuck and then they all start singing the Aerosmith song...which is supposed to be a hilarious moment...and I just bawled. Sigh...just thought id share that...funny to look back on. You def shouldnt feel foolish though and im glad you're doing things for yourself that make YOU happy...Annanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-28469986153661189132010-03-30T09:46:28.923-04:002010-03-30T09:46:28.923-04:00Nicole, no judgment here. I also cry at that Pampe...Nicole, no judgment here. I also cry at that Pampers commercial with all the baby animals and "Forever Young" playing in the background. Can you say "easily manipulated by advertisements"? Lol. <br /><br />Yes, am loving the church so far. Going to a young adults' gathering tonight. It's so weird how different my life already looks. Would never have done that before.KT My Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-13360232291150999042010-03-30T09:42:46.243-04:002010-03-30T09:42:46.243-04:00Hey! I cry at episodes of ANTM! lol I miss that fe...Hey! I cry at episodes of ANTM! lol I miss that feeling from a church setting, finding one is so hard. Glad you found one to help you out =DNicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17108218998705465146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-50843751172081626142010-03-29T16:55:12.112-04:002010-03-29T16:55:12.112-04:00Thanks, Krysten! I'm doing my best to move thr...Thanks, Krysten! I'm doing my best to move through this with grace. It's tough though. I cry. A lot. But you're right; it's a good thing. I've found the shower to be one of the best place since the water is already running!KT My Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-42768875162442160992010-03-29T13:13:18.316-04:002010-03-29T13:13:18.316-04:00As someone who cries over EVERYTHING (except my we...As someone who cries over EVERYTHING (except my wedding, where I oddly did not cry once the whole day) I think tears can be so healthy and good for you. <br /><br />And good for you for getting out there. This post sounds so upbeat and maybe you can find things that YOU love with no one holding you back.Krysten @ Why Girls Are Weirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07290616156300143483noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-23458594648969821022010-03-29T08:40:08.309-04:002010-03-29T08:40:08.309-04:00Oh, I am so sorry that you went thru a break up. I...Oh, I am so sorry that you went thru a break up. I imagine that was very difficult. I am sorry you are hurting. I remember those dating years and they are filled with angst! So great that you went to church. I always feel the same way you do. I don't want to go at first but then I am so glad that I did! : )Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07874897254332872367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-58833985109852091732010-03-29T08:25:05.631-04:002010-03-29T08:25:05.631-04:00You are so right. Tears are a beautiful, healthy t...You are so right. Tears are a beautiful, healthy thing. I just get totally blindsided sometimes. I mean, ANTM?! Really?! But I'm trying to stop questioning myself, feeling what I feel, and working through it. I just wish it were culturally acceptable to cry. I hate choking back tears. <br /><br />Thanks for the encouragement again. You've been such a fabulous friend! I know it's going to get easier. So far, though, I have yet to believe that there are non-douchey men living in this city. Surely they're out there somewhere.KT My Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-74291190980917842672010-03-29T08:05:08.000-04:002010-03-29T08:05:08.000-04:00Oh, and congrats on surviving week 1! The worst pa...Oh, and congrats on surviving week 1! The worst part really is over. It's all up hill from here!Karenhttp://livingwellonless.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-90922590737191652292010-03-29T08:03:04.240-04:002010-03-29T08:03:04.240-04:00Tears aren't a bad thing. They're complete...Tears aren't a bad thing. They're completely necessary and healthy (as I'm sure you already know, but it doesn't hurt to be reminded). It is definitely a victory that you had to stop and think about whether you cried. I'm sure that first day there was a LOT more crying. I can remember break ups where I couldn't do anything for days without crying. So you're healing! Like you said, it's only been a week.<br /><br />It is amazing that you picked yourself up and went to church. I'm sure you'll find great comfort there, and it's a huge step that you were able to go and do this for yourself by yourself. Way to go!Karenhttp://livingwellonless.comnoreply@blogger.com