tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post2337489217558925040..comments2023-06-28T11:26:55.194-04:00Comments on Dancing through NC: Do-Over Please: Encounter with Former College Roommate aka "Little Miss Perfect"KT My Ladyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-7423920016143187562010-04-08T10:22:50.303-04:002010-04-08T10:22:50.303-04:00ahhhh, we've all been there. last night in pol...ahhhh, we've all been there. last night in pole dancing class i had a real-life barbie showing off in front of me. <br /><br />glad you came out of it feeling positive though!livin widehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18177641806080406988noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-86794398027575062032010-04-08T08:47:43.819-04:002010-04-08T08:47:43.819-04:00Bunny Kid, thanks for saying hi. Glad you're r...Bunny Kid, thanks for saying hi. Glad you're reading. :-)KT My Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-86111445117599801612010-04-08T01:06:04.959-04:002010-04-08T01:06:04.959-04:00I'm so sorry to hear about your breakup :( I w...I'm so sorry to hear about your breakup :( I wonder if it even helps to say this, but with an eating disorder she's got some seeeerious problems and most likely a not so great past. I think the beautiful people are either sad or too shallow to realize how sad they are! There are no words I can say to take you away from your hurt, so just know I'm here reading :)Bunny Kidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13042257650270473739noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-38310388143259210432010-04-07T23:17:25.201-04:002010-04-07T23:17:25.201-04:00Blondeboobs, I love it! Definitely will be my new ...Blondeboobs, I love it! Definitely will be my new nickname for her.KT My Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-1966389087997916292010-04-07T21:51:25.679-04:002010-04-07T21:51:25.679-04:00My best friend is one of those girls and I used to...My best friend is one of those girls and I used to let it bother me so much! I mean while reading this I kept relating to situations we had but I finally realized I had to stop comparing my self to her!! Who knows maybe blondeboobs is jeaous of your life. Your single have great job and starting a whole new stage in your life! She's tied down with some guy she's been with forever she's probably bored by now!lolthe "L" spothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00320602994752272984noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-18196821108719644652010-04-07T17:34:47.126-04:002010-04-07T17:34:47.126-04:00Cee, you're SO right. Maybe I'll be better...Cee, you're SO right. Maybe I'll be better prepared though when we have a reunion in November. Perhaps a new man in tow?<br /><br />Karen, you're right. She just intimidates me, that's all. I know it's a facade. Just hard when I'm already feeling kind of down about thing.<br /><br />Anna, I love you! Your comments always resonate so much with me. I think I will try going to a movie alone. Something to put on the "sassy new single girl" list!KT My Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-40427217130947005352010-04-07T16:21:35.243-04:002010-04-07T16:21:35.243-04:00you know what..the important thing is that you wen...you know what..the important thing is that you went. You could have easily been like fuck it I don't have a date I don;t feel like explaining anything to anybody or discussing how I'm doing in life...but you sucked it up and went...so kudos for you.<br /><br />You know...when this was all happening to me I was actually talking to a good old friend of mine (who actually lives in D.C.) and she told me when she went through the worst heartbreak of her life...she started doing things on her own..and it felt very liberating. Like she would wake up in the morning and go see a movie by (Gasp!) herself. I thought that was insane...here I am newly single now I'm going to the movies by myself. But I did it...and there;s something incredibly empowering about buying your own ticket and some popcorn and just . Nobody will ever be happy with a significant other if they aren't happy with them self first. Sometimes we're so quick to try and find a replacement that we don't realize we need time to heal and grow alone.<br /><br />And like you said...you're awesome...spend some more time with yourself.<br /><br />and enjoy this beautiful weather!!!Annanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-22250249227605961572010-04-07T11:06:21.395-04:002010-04-07T11:06:21.395-04:00Honestly, I know it may feel like things are perfe...Honestly, I know it may feel like things are perfect for her, but even within this post, you identified the problem with people who seem that perfect. She's likely still struggling with that eating disorder. :( I know you're hurting right now, but if it's true that she's struggled with something like that since college, then I promise you -- she doesn't think she's perfect. She's probably in a lot of pain, and honestly? You're probably much better off than her right now. You're at least willing to stumble and admit imperfection (like a normal person) and grow from it.Karenhttp://livingwellforless.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-80081358094445079782010-04-07T10:41:05.073-04:002010-04-07T10:41:05.073-04:00People like that are frustrating no matter when yo...People like that are frustrating no matter when you see them!courtneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00368060921177803100noreply@blogger.com