tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post4762853508144532555..comments2023-06-28T11:26:55.194-04:00Comments on Dancing through NC: Can I Go Home Yet? Because I Really, Really Miss My Bloggy FriendsKT My Ladyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-88144242430168029612010-10-18T14:05:59.543-04:002010-10-18T14:05:59.543-04:00What a perfect answer: what if it is. I am startin...What a perfect answer: what if it is. I am starting to like this guy.Tina L. Hookhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12780807680745838371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-71391118225777939162010-10-17T22:39:05.499-04:002010-10-17T22:39:05.499-04:00I'm glad you're back on track (and coming ...I'm glad you're back on track (and coming home soon, err, actually you should be back by now). You should absolutely do what your heart tells you to - just be yourself and don't second-guess your emotions, but pay attention to the cues you get, also. I still believe that dating other people is the best way to maintain that balance, but that's just my opinion. Hope things keep going well! :)Sassy Marmaladehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10026420867008919609noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-30773039069836902592010-10-14T22:25:06.778-04:002010-10-14T22:25:06.778-04:00@Krysten, Lifelessons,Stephany--I think I'm wi...@Krysten, Lifelessons,Stephany--I think I'm with you for the most part. It's scary but worthwhile.<br /><br />@me--Glad I'm not the only one! It's easier when you have some reassurance in person. But forced distance is a good thing for me, I'm finding.<br /><br />@Delilah--if I figure it out, I'm writing a book and will make millions!<br /><br />@beth--I do plan to at least go out on a few dates. I haven't been home long enough to schedule one yet, but I'll keep you posted. Right now all I want to do is catch up on sleep!KT My Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-44008195944359927042010-10-14T15:05:46.136-04:002010-10-14T15:05:46.136-04:00Are you putting all eggs back into one basket? Wha...Are you putting all eggs back into one basket? What happened to all the other dates you had lined up?bethnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-16900314843698753692010-10-14T14:48:40.979-04:002010-10-14T14:48:40.979-04:00If you find out let me know! I want to think there...If you find out let me know! I want to think there's a way to guard your heart while still letting someone get close to you, but I'm not sure. I'm so glad things are going well with Dr. Nutrition! <br /><br />xx,<br />Delilahdating divahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05634826148056884866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-58934018822752895612010-10-14T12:12:13.405-04:002010-10-14T12:12:13.405-04:00I agree with Krysten, leap! Go for it. I mean, I k...I agree with Krysten, leap! Go for it. I mean, I know you were hurt badly by SLC and that would be enough for me to hesitate to get too serious, too soon. He does seem like a good guy and really, you never know unless you try.<br /><br />Miss your posts! Come back, come back!Stephanyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01664500645286563334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-36389431009460086882010-10-14T12:02:21.314-04:002010-10-14T12:02:21.314-04:00Yes, you can. By realizing that kisses aren't...Yes, you can. By realizing that kisses aren't contracts, presents aren't promises. And trusting that things work out as they're supposed to. People come into our lives for seasons, reasons or forever, and you never know which category anyone will fall under. You cannot go through life making decisions based on what the ultimate outcome of that relationship will be. If that were the case, we'd never have relationships! Because unless you're a psychic, you just don't know. Maybe you'll date this person for a couple of months and he'll end it. Maybe you'll date him for six months and you'll end it. Maybe you'll end up marrying him. Who knows? The one thing I do know, though, is that definitely it will not go anywhere if you don't put yourself out there. There's a difference between taking it slow but being completely open to whatever happens, and just diving into bed and thinking this is the one. You're being cautious...that's ok. But don't be so cautious and needy and afraid that it drives what could have been a good relationship into the ground. Take a leap of faith. What's the worst that can happen? You break up and feel bad. Well....as this experience has taught you, you WILL survive. But no guts, no glory.Lifelessonsnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-48208853899955019162010-10-14T10:39:14.549-04:002010-10-14T10:39:14.549-04:00This reminds me of my guy, where in person is alwa...This reminds me of my guy, where in person is always so much better than otherwise. I wish I could get to a place where I felt safe inside me instead of trying to gauge if the circumstances were ok. Like, what if it's safe until it isn't? Maybe life is just like that and it's ok to try and fall and try again? sigh. I'm still figuring this out myself.menoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-51067268950683142772010-10-14T10:25:41.158-04:002010-10-14T10:25:41.158-04:00You never know if you don't go for it. Honest...You never know if you don't go for it. Honestly I said just leap. <br /><br />And I miss you!Krysten @ Why Girls Are Weirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07290616156300143483noreply@blogger.com