tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post6798973523574065268..comments2023-06-28T11:26:55.194-04:00Comments on Dancing through NC: Feels Like HomeKT My Ladyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-37982978375091544822011-07-12T09:28:00.912-04:002011-07-12T09:28:00.912-04:00Anonymous--thanks for your comment. I definitely w...Anonymous--thanks for your comment. I definitely want to keep my eyes wide open. But at the same time, one can begin to create problems in the mind that aren't even there. Carolina Man and I are establishing a really healthy pattern of bringing up what we're afraid of or excited about. The honesty is what we value most. <br /><br />As for SCL, I haven't thought about him much. I certainly haven't thought about him in any kind of longing way. If anything, I think about our relationship and how unfulfilling it was for me. I can really see that now. I would have outgrown him and I would have been miserable. We weren't a good fit. And, I'm beginning to feel ok about the fact that he might be happier with someone else. <br /><br />My gut is usually right, and my gut is saying to go for it--not stupidly, not foolishly, but wholeheartedly.KT My Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-24436236751121315732011-07-12T00:48:36.989-04:002011-07-12T00:48:36.989-04:00Thank you for your beautiful description. I could...Thank you for your beautiful description. I could almost see the stars myself! <br /><br />I've thought about your story several times since I read your posts last week, and I have to say.....in my gut I feel that you're following the right path. I know that sounds strange since I don't even know you, but I just have a feeling that this is going to work out for you. I DO think one has to be careful about not getting so carried away by a situation that they aren't seeing it clearly, but there is something to be said about not being TOO careful. <br /><br />The early stage of falling in love with someone is the best feeling I think there is in life. And it is possible to be so into that feeling that one foresakes all reason. I really, really hope that isn't you. I hope this is the real deal for you. I'll bet you haven't thought of SCL since you met Carolina Man. Now THATS something worth celebrating.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-57625013714828911162011-07-11T16:46:51.536-04:002011-07-11T16:46:51.536-04:00This makes me happy. I'm glad you've found...This makes me happy. I'm glad you've found somewhere (and someone) that make you feel like you're at home.Krysten @ Why Girls Are Weirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07290616156300143483noreply@blogger.com