tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post8056921391341150012..comments2023-06-28T11:26:55.194-04:00Comments on Dancing through NC: What Exactly Happened Between Us; Part 1 Version 2.0, A Dramatic Interpretation of the Events of March 9thKT My Ladyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-22120683475507821082010-04-01T22:54:30.311-04:002010-04-01T22:54:30.311-04:00Nicole, I LOVE YOU. Your comments are the best and...Nicole, I LOVE YOU. Your comments are the best and totally resonate with the part of me that is still pretty pissed off. Thank you, doll!<br /><br />SD, I promise that it'll be up soon. Sorry to hear about your break-up, too. We chickadees have to stick together.KT My Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-58250356819188319682010-04-01T20:31:56.163-04:002010-04-01T20:31:56.163-04:00Tell us! Tell us! Tell us! My bf and I recently br...Tell us! Tell us! Tell us! My bf and I recently broke up and this is so close to how it went down! Oh girl, the feelings and emotions I had are all coming back to me. I'll be back tomorrow but you BETTER tell us ;-)Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01176522388318887824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-89448802838504266652010-04-01T19:47:39.576-04:002010-04-01T19:47:39.576-04:00While I appreciate his "honesty" and not...While I appreciate his "honesty" and not leading you on any LONGER....WTF!?! how about not wait til this blows up and beats you down and changes your life dramatically!? I am like you I will wait around for a friggin answer! Hello I asked you a question! I just cant understand why it has to be all held in, like we deserve AT least to clue us in! and Yes I am intrigued! I totally bypassed all the April Fools Day posts for yours haha =DNicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17108218998705465146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-86590045441249590482010-04-01T16:46:49.035-04:002010-04-01T16:46:49.035-04:00LW, you're right. That whole 20/20 hindsight t...LW, you're right. That whole 20/20 hindsight thing is true. I think I just didn't want to see what he was telling me. It didn't help that he wasn't saying it in a very direct way either. And yes, we're getting close to going on two weeks. Celebration indeed!<br /><br />GG, glad you find my heartache interesting. LOL. :-) Thanks for saying hi!KT My Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-40980794726642325362010-04-01T16:39:08.063-04:002010-04-01T16:39:08.063-04:00I love Jennifer Aniston in that movie! Interesting...I love Jennifer Aniston in that movie! Interesting post!Glam Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11042220287302257748noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-5337880558690942582010-04-01T16:38:53.005-04:002010-04-01T16:38:53.005-04:00I agree that these conversations seem so different...I agree that these conversations seem so different when you look back on them. Bear and I have had arguments that last way too long and I too have been guilty of taking forever to answer. Thanks for making me see how unfair it is (he's told me but your perspective helps). <br /><br />And celebration - you've made it through yet another few days! Hugs!livin widehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18177641806080406988noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-14309698869076329502010-04-01T12:54:56.461-04:002010-04-01T12:54:56.461-04:00Aw, SATC. I keep thinking of the part where Charlo...Aw, SATC. I keep thinking of the part where Charlotte is in the bookstore in the self-help section, looking for "Starting Over Yet Again." "Travel?! Travel?!" <br /><br />I did feel sort of funny getting all of my break-up books out of the library. Hard to have, as you say, such a visible wound.KT My Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-62156806538261719392010-04-01T11:17:51.765-04:002010-04-01T11:17:51.765-04:00I am sooooo very sorry, this makes me so sad. I t...I am sooooo very sorry, this makes me so sad. I think a broken heart should be the most visible injury of them all. ""We could only wonder how she would be able to dust herself off and start over again. And yet we knew we couldn't bear for her not to, and felt ever more optimistic that after all her struggles, she would someday meet her man, her equal a man with the same charisma, love of life, ...and humanity she possessed. In the meantime, she'd have her friends and the knowledge that she deserved the world." SATCJulianahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04888685759543201494noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-3781564809896110542010-04-01T08:48:09.784-04:002010-04-01T08:48:09.784-04:00Cee, I'm with you. Honesty is not the greatest...Cee, I'm with you. Honesty is not the greatest good in a relationship. it is critical, but so is sensitivity, communication, and understanding. In that moment, I really felt like he was only being honest. And I WAS pissed that he had been holding so much back from me. Basically he didn't give us a chance to work out whatever he was feeling. Instead he waited until it was too late, blindsiding me and disempowering me. Not a fan.KT My Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-66256351924176588492010-04-01T08:43:16.157-04:002010-04-01T08:43:16.157-04:00If it had been me him using the word "honest&...If it had been me him using the word "honest" would have pissed me off beyond belief...clearly he hadn't been being honest for a long time if this came out of nowhere. Saying your being honest (now) doesn't make it ok. Just my two cents. :)courtneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00368060921177803100noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-87254401463003629762010-04-01T07:50:29.064-04:002010-04-01T07:50:29.064-04:00Well, that was definitely NOT a "we" dec...Well, that was definitely NOT a "we" decision. I should write a blog about this, too. So many blogs to write about this whole situation! <br /><br />Back in the fall, we had been looking at rings. I was really excited about it, but SCL got pretty tired of hearing me talk about our engagement, and eventually confessed that he didn't feel like he would be ready by the time we had discussed--this spring. It wasn't a "I never want to get engaged" conversation, but more of a "Not right now." EVERYONE online told me that meant "I don't ever want to get engaged to you," but I didn't want to believe that. I wanted to believe he just needed another year or so, then he'd come around and feel ready. <br /><br />In my mind, I had decided I'd give us at least another year and then reassess things. I didn't want to stay in a relationship that wasn't going anywhere, but I also wasn't ready to give up this early. Yes, a blog post about this will be coming up. Adding to "to blog" list, which is growing exponentially long.KT My Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-92004588047279160512010-04-01T07:42:54.812-04:002010-04-01T07:42:54.812-04:00Nothing like hindsight to put these conversations ...Nothing like hindsight to put these conversations into perspective. It's hard to remember how things went when emotions are so high, but it seems like you handled the situation well.<br /><br />I'm just curious ... at what point did you decide that you wouldn't be getting engaged? You've mentioned that a few times as SCL's primary reason for wanting to end the relationship, but it seems like the decision to back out of your plans for engagement are a pretty big turning point. What happened to make you two decide not to get engaged?Karenhttp://livingwellonless.comnoreply@blogger.com