tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post8437508139541552632..comments2023-06-28T11:26:55.194-04:00Comments on Dancing through NC: Reflecting Back, Visioning the FutureKT My Ladyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-8628405259443124512011-07-15T18:02:18.991-04:002011-07-15T18:02:18.991-04:00Not only was SCL a total ass-hat but he had no ide...Not only was SCL a total ass-hat but he had no idea what he had in you and I'm selfishly glad he let you go.CarolinaManhttp://carolinaman.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-65221758502316919762011-07-15T17:10:52.856-04:002011-07-15T17:10:52.856-04:00When you wrote that passage in March of 2010 I was...When you wrote that passage in March of 2010 I was 3 months into couples counselling with my now ex-wife and starting to realize she was never going to change. My heart was breaking and I was having to come to terms with the fact that my marriage was not going to last. I had spent 5 years convincing myself that we could make anything work; that any obstacles could be overcome. Dissolving that relationship and admitting failure was one of the hardest moments of my life. I truly believed that was my one chance and we had blown it. I can't even express how amazed I am that I found you. I was jaded, guarded, done, exhausted. Now I am energized, hopeful, ready, and anxious to start a new life with you.<br /><br />The excerpt below is a testament to how self-aware, psychologically healthy, and emotionally mature you are and it makes me love you even more:<br /><br />I can't control what others think, how they love or don't love, if and when they decide to enter or exit my life. But I can work to turn the love I so easily give outwardly toward myself. I can show myself love, care for myself, be satisfied with myself.CarolinaManhttp://carolinaman.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-14708238426859261502011-07-15T12:15:28.163-04:002011-07-15T12:15:28.163-04:00I really needed to read this today. Thank you so m...I really needed to read this today. Thank you so much for sharing. I feel like I'm still in that place you wrote about in your passage, but this gives me a sense of hope. ::hug::aspleniahttp://asplenia.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-67665999258465282572011-07-15T09:54:34.463-04:002011-07-15T09:54:34.463-04:00I've looked back over old journals and it'...I've looked back over old journals and it's bizarre the insights we have sometimes.Krysten @ Why Girls Are Weirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07290616156300143483noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-38497732603712855312011-07-15T09:32:27.830-04:002011-07-15T09:32:27.830-04:00You lucky lucky girl...am closing my eyes and pray...You lucky lucky girl...am closing my eyes and praying i find a 'Carolina Man' soon....<br /><br />Be happy!!!Kiahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05561985947973918832noreply@blogger.com