tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post8805111499320103432..comments2023-06-28T11:26:55.194-04:00Comments on Dancing through NC: EnoughKT My Ladyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-58425755449803209012011-06-12T21:40:09.057-04:002011-06-12T21:40:09.057-04:00Well f*cking said.Well f*cking said.Debyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06493330103697717539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-82807091484363303862011-06-10T14:14:13.221-04:002011-06-10T14:14:13.221-04:00I have been there before, girl. Take heart. It doe...I have been there before, girl. Take heart. It does get better. He will matter less. And you are enough. In fact you're way better.Aubrey S.https://www.blogger.com/profile/10463029915830355954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-56793279414557662592011-06-09T16:47:48.044-04:002011-06-09T16:47:48.044-04:00It took me months to get over a girlfriend who bro...It took me months to get over a girlfriend who broke up with me a couple of years ago. Months. And, just when I thought I was all better it was all slammed back in my face. I was at a Caps playoff game and saw her with the new guy she traded me in for, sitting the season tix seats she gave me for my birthday (and then took back). It was a punch in the gut that reopened the old wound. Although it never overwhelmed my life, it still hurt and now, even a couple years later, I still don't like the way that memory feels. <br /><br />Time doesn't heal all wounds, but eventually the scar tissue gets tough enough for you to ignore the nagging discomfort. Keep your chin up and you'll prove you're the better person.FoggyDewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07934197854661226301noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-15583963915648261632011-06-08T13:05:25.084-04:002011-06-08T13:05:25.084-04:00This is the most difficult part of a breakup. Int...This is the most difficult part of a breakup. Intellectually, you know that you should say "Screw him if he doesn't want me" and walk away. But emotionally, it's never that easy. It's almost impossible to think rationally when you are hurting. The good thing is that you are turning that corner and realizing that you are enough and you deserve to be with someone who adores you. Good for you...taking back your own happiness. Good luck.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-87635896519051343672011-06-08T12:37:00.836-04:002011-06-08T12:37:00.836-04:00BravoBravoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-61249280707853303732011-06-08T09:42:53.933-04:002011-06-08T09:42:53.933-04:00Love you lady.Love you lady.Krysten @ Why Girls Are Weirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07290616156300143483noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-52697612530382756182011-06-08T07:51:35.007-04:002011-06-08T07:51:35.007-04:00OMG this is so timely. I was just talking about th...OMG this is so timely. I was just talking about this in counseling, about how I never felt "enough" as a kid and then repeated the pattern in a past relationship. But we are enough.<br /><br />I also just stopped reading the book "It's called a breakup because it's broken" and the authors discuss this in a lighthearted and healing way. They discuss their own terrible breakups and also how important it is to realize you don't really want to be involved with someone who isn't crazy about you. <br /><br />The other book I read, "Attached: The Science of Human Attachment" says that for some people, this (signals of partner pulling away or being less invested) triggers a longing that can be difficult to sever. <br /><br />I started looking inside and tried to squelch those thoughts that if I were prettier, thinner, etc. he'd want me, but I'm now trying to value me for being enough. Taking the keys back to happiness. Thank you for this post, it's awesome.<br /><br />I highly recommend the above two books, btw. They shed huge amounts of insight and were an enormous comfort through some incredibly rocky times.aspleniahttp://asplenia.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-51514403836757595142011-06-08T06:46:52.650-04:002011-06-08T06:46:52.650-04:00Yes you are!!!Yes you are!!!Kiahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05561985947973918832noreply@blogger.com