tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post3588345398184061464..comments2023-06-28T11:26:55.194-04:00Comments on Dancing through NC: (Ex) Grad-Student GirlfriendKT My Ladyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-12459132008963432592010-07-08T07:14:24.246-04:002010-07-08T07:14:24.246-04:00Hi Courtney--well, he's no longer my ex, and h...Hi Courtney--well, he's no longer my ex, and he knows about the blog. He just doesn't read it anymore!KT My Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-36837078510986942832010-07-08T03:39:36.295-04:002010-07-08T03:39:36.295-04:00I think this is such an interesting topic. I'v...I think this is such an interesting topic. I've been blogging a little bit about losing my job lately. I've also blogged a bit about the death of my father. I know that strangers read my blog and it seems weird to put it all out there on the table, especially if it involves another person's privacy. On the other hand, any blog with substance requires honesty, personality, and authentic posts that people can relate to. I found that blogging about some of the more difficult and more personal experiences in my life has been helpful in the end- for me and for some of my readers. I appreciate your honesty... your ex might have a different opinion though :)Courtneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15274591862559243657noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-44521718885753444682010-03-24T21:02:35.543-04:002010-03-24T21:02:35.543-04:00I'll leave the true discussions of blog privac...I'll leave the true discussions of blog privacy to Karen (who undoubtedly knows way more than I do). I think that, if you do want to keep it away from his eyes (and anyone else's), you'd need to install a password. And that seems complicated. As long as you won't be forever wondering if he's reading what you're writing, it seems fine to keep it here.Haleynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-1076623053724765072010-03-23T19:09:27.230-04:002010-03-23T19:09:27.230-04:00Haley and Karen, thanks for your words of encourag...Haley and Karen, thanks for your words of encouragement. Here's my question: would a simple url change be enough to privatize it? The wonders of Google make anything easy to find. I sort of feel like the onus is on him to maintain boundaries on this one.KT My Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-16739737053710523272010-03-23T17:09:41.214-04:002010-03-23T17:09:41.214-04:00Oh dear. I'm very sorry to hear about this. ...Oh dear. I'm very sorry to hear about this. I've been an occasional visitor ever since I found a link from Karen at Living Well on Less. I, too, live in D.C. and I like that you are liking life here. Karen has a good point -- does your ex-boyfriend know the address for this blog? If so, it might be wise to move it. Or else, you might find yourself wondering if he's reading it. And the "Breakup" authors would tell you that's not healthy.Haleynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-38318826315102851722010-03-22T13:17:32.296-04:002010-03-22T13:17:32.296-04:00I would definitely stick with blogging. It can cer...I would definitely stick with blogging. It can certainly help during rough emotional periods. But does your former boyfriend know about this blog? If so, it might be better to move it somewhere else so he can't view your healing process.Karenhttp://livingwellonless.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-48392425604307182642010-03-22T12:18:55.304-04:002010-03-22T12:18:55.304-04:00Thanks, Karen. SUCKS. But I think blogging could b...Thanks, Karen. SUCKS. But I think blogging could be cathartic.KT My Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-61137872974007858652010-03-22T12:18:02.277-04:002010-03-22T12:18:02.277-04:00So so sorry to hear this. :( Keep your chin up. Ti...So so sorry to hear this. :( Keep your chin up. Time heals everything.Karenhttp://livingwellonless.comnoreply@blogger.com