tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post3767582291354277388..comments2023-06-28T11:26:55.194-04:00Comments on Dancing through NC: It Gets Worse Before It Gets Better, Right?KT My Ladyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-35017391517376194202010-04-11T06:58:10.373-04:002010-04-11T06:58:10.373-04:00Thanks, Nicole. I'm doing my best to hang in t...Thanks, Nicole. I'm doing my best to hang in there, but it's really hard right now.KT My Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-52620438114067743062010-04-11T02:31:13.002-04:002010-04-11T02:31:13.002-04:00Oh nooo I am so sorry you are feeling this way! I ...Oh nooo I am so sorry you are feeling this way! I dodnt even know you but I just want to give you a big ol hug and tell you everything is going to be ok! Hang in there! =)Nicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17108218998705465146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-67118146409421294492010-04-10T22:43:11.078-04:002010-04-10T22:43:11.078-04:00Thanks, FL. I don't regret how I was in the re...Thanks, FL. I don't regret how I was in the relationship. I did everything I could to be honest, open, and loving. And I got burned big time, and it sucks.<br /><br />I agree that I deserve someone who loves me and me alone--any idea where I can find a man like that?! Do they even exist?KT My Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-89561131533697596572010-04-10T22:30:24.142-04:002010-04-10T22:30:24.142-04:00I am very sorry to hear about your break up. I wa...I am very sorry to hear about your break up. I was always the girl who wore my heart on my sleeve and took a lot of risks when I was single, and I can't tell you how many break ups I had to go through in my 20's. It is never easy.<br /><br />I can tell you that you deserve to be in a relationship with someone who holds YOU on a pedestal, and no one else - someone who makes things easy not difficult.Tina L. Hookhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12780807680745838371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-3176157320290826002010-04-10T17:18:03.300-04:002010-04-10T17:18:03.300-04:00Is your email address on your blog?Is your email address on your blog?KT My Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-48424374832081835372010-04-10T15:04:48.143-04:002010-04-10T15:04:48.143-04:00I'm here if you want to chat. Just email me an...I'm here if you want to chat. Just email me anytime!!Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01176522388318887824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-69626725153570972472010-04-10T15:00:40.453-04:002010-04-10T15:00:40.453-04:00Yes, love is abso-fucking-lutely crazy. Thanks for...Yes, love is abso-fucking-lutely crazy. Thanks for the encouragement. I know it'll get better. Just wish it'd hurry up and get better asap please!KT My Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-86294288530408220112010-04-10T14:57:06.963-04:002010-04-10T14:57:06.963-04:00Dear, it sounds like you're on the right path....Dear, it sounds like you're on the right path. Just know that everything happens for a reason and when one door closes, a bigger better door opens! I know those quotes might not help now or might not make you feel any better but you're really doing good. And honestly, if it were meant to be with you two, it will happen. I just heard on the radio the other day that 1 out of 3 women want out of their marriages. Isn't that crazy? I hope I'm never one of those 1 out of 3. Love... its crazy, isn't it?Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01176522388318887824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-14783574920941666002010-04-10T14:44:57.582-04:002010-04-10T14:44:57.582-04:00Knowing myself, I don't think a rebound would ...Knowing myself, I don't think a rebound would be healthy for me. I'm really striving to take good care of myself and treat myself with the love I expect from others. Not an easy thing to do. The last thing I want is to go looking for affirmation in another person and get myself hurt again. <br /><br />SCL really was a good partner in a lot of ways. He didn't treat me poorly at all. We had a good time together and supported one another. He just...I don't know. It would be easy to blame him for everything, but honestly, I don't think that would be honest. I just wish he could have been more mature and had been able to give me more. What a loss. <br /><br />But when I get ready to date, I'll give you a shout and you can help me navigate online dating.KT My Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-34460038022316835032010-04-10T14:40:57.999-04:002010-04-10T14:40:57.999-04:00Dear, I did it pretty quickly because the goal was...Dear, I did it pretty quickly because the goal wasn't to find that special someone, it was just to preoccupy myself. If I found someone perfect, great. But I knew that probably wouln't happen right away. My main goal was trying to feel better about myself. I needed to know that there were other guys out there, other guys that would treat me better, other guys that would do anything for me. It got my mind off the garbage that I was used to at home. Really, you need to do what's best for you and if you need to have a rebound to just get through the day, I'd do it. You need someone else to fill your mind and thoughs. The more you think about the ex, the more miserable you're going to be. You need to get out there. In fact, I just joined match.com the other day and girl, there are so many guys out there. I woke up to 22 emails from guys that want to know more about me. It's something really nice to wake up to.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01176522388318887824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-3906216092784881412010-04-10T14:26:42.321-04:002010-04-10T14:26:42.321-04:00Hi Jen, how long did you wait until you started da...Hi Jen, how long did you wait until you started dating other people? I feel like it's too early for me, but I am starting to think about it a bit more. I don't want a rebound, but I would like to think that there are other men who are going to be good for me and help me get over this mess.KT My Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07045966201880044927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7354936394077279437.post-81385581721260193402010-04-10T14:00:56.116-04:002010-04-10T14:00:56.116-04:00Dear - I almost cringed when I read your post toda...Dear - I almost cringed when I read your post today because honestly, it could have been written by me. I'm going through exactly the same thing. It's funny because I too gave everything in the relationship. I loved him, I supported him, I was there for him and what does he do for me? Nothing. When people ask me what I get out of the relationship, I can't think of a dang thing. So why do I stay??? Because I love the guy. Why? Who the hell knows. I have no idea why my heart is doing this to me... making me love a guy who's selfish, who only thinks of himself and wouldn't have done half of the things I've done for him throughout his life. So what do you do? You ask yourself what you're getting out of the relationship and if can't come up with anything, you need, need, need to preoccupy yourself with someone else. I know, I know some people say that's the worst thing you can do but preoccupying yourself with another guy will give you the confidence because you'll see there are other guys out there that would kill to be with you, that will do anything for you and that will be there for you. I'm here for you girl and know that I'm in the exact same boat. And every single day I struggle. Try to have a good weekend and email me if you want to chat.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01176522388318887824noreply@blogger.com