Um...I Have a Date?

Just today I was standing in line, waiting for my badge to enter the United Nations for the Commission on the Status of Women, when I thought to myself the most shallow thing ever, which was:  "I am never going to meet a man through my work." As it turns out, most dudes aren't that interested in working for women-specific causes. Most of the time, I don't mind that; in fact, it can be pretty awesome to be in a room full of passionate, powerful women. The energy is something like none other. But when it comes to scoping out the men folk, it's not so good for that.

After enjoying my latest takeout meal and lounging in pajamas, I was reading through my conference booklet (aka playing Snood on my laptop) when I get a text. A text from Mr. Tennis Pro. Don't remember him? Well, I actually never wrote about him. He contacted me via eHarm back in October when I was in the middle of my cross-country tour. This guy was persistent and patient, and after a few phone calls, I totally blew him off. I was just getting to the point where I couldn't stand dating anymore, and I had to say to him (and one or two others) that I was sorry, but I just couldn't do the dating thing right now. He responded with a frowny face and to let him know if I changed my mind.

I figured this would be a total turn-off for the guys I turned down. Apparently not for Mr. Tennis Pro (who is not only a tennis pro; he is also a business analyst, but tennis pro is more fun to say.) When I said I was surprised to hear from him, he said he'd found me intriguing. Then he asked when I'd be back and promptly asked me out for dinner and drinks the day after--and that he'd call me the day before to work out the details.

Persistent. Apparently doesn't hold a grudge. Bold. I can work with that.

So, apparently I have a date on Saturday night.

11 comments:

  1. EEK! EXCITED EXCITED EXCITED!!! I want all the details after the date!!

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  2. Good luck! I can't wait to hear all about it. He sounds promising so far...and tennis pro is fun to say.

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  3. That's exciting! Can't wait to hear about the date.

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  4. Yeah, it's nice to have a date out of the blue! Can't believe this guy contacted me again.

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  5. Ooooh! You're "intriguing"....nice. Hope you have a great time!!

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  6. :) that's great!! don't you just love those cute surprises?!?

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  7. I like a guy who is determined (provided of course you're not completely disinterested and it doesn't sound as though you are... so clearly there might be something there!). AND I like that he asked you out for a Saturday night. I feel as though I haven't had a Saturday night date in... well, I don't remember the last time.

    Please keep us posted. I'm excited to hear how it goes :)

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  8. I'm a fan of the nickname.
    i hope it goes well
    -K

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  9. Also, I'm a dude working in women's rights who had no luck meeting women through work...

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